5 Reasons Why You’re Still Single
5 Reasons Why You’re Still Single
“Single” is an adjective with the
two-word syllables that’s so simple to hear but can cause great impact if being
describe on you. It is highly defined as being not involved in a serious
romantic relationship with anyone. Also, it can somewhat tell the backstories
of you on why you’ve chosen to be like that or how did you end up on that.
Here are some five
(5) reasons why you’re still single.
A
quick heads-up, this article may not somehow be true to others. This is purely
on gathering people’s idea and somehow the basis is mostly in their life
happenings.
1. Standards (Somewhat High)
We are in a
modernized world where we are thrown in great standards due to the people that
surrounded us, or maybe due to the love stories that we have watched or read.
With our imagination and the things we have read on the internet made us raise
our standards. We have been wanting things in a movie or in a book to be
applied to us. The same scene, the same lines, and the same gestures which we
wanted to happen in reality. Or, simply you just have high standards due to
your fundamental orientations.
2. Priorities
How busy the world
can make us and not drive us in the world of being in a relationship. The clock
spins at a fast pace where you don’t have time to engage in a relationship as
your priorities weigh more than it. We all aimed to be a successful person,
hence, the time to spend on going on a date or simply talking with your partner
may take up some part of your schedule. Teenagers nowadays say that “Study
first before relationship”. And just by that simple saying, one could conclude
that priorities first before on that thing.
3. Social Approval
Fishing for someone’s
idea of yours is never okay. But, some people are hungry and born with it.
Social approval can be related to family approval, peer approval, or stranger’s
(society) approval. One of the reasons why you’re still single is simply
because you want social approval on your doings. And if that fits with what the
society wants, you would go for it. Hence, getting that social approval is
never easy, then that’s why you stayed on a single line because of everyone’s
perspective.
4. Still Waiting for Someone
We can never deny
that we always have that one person that we adored the most even if that person
never looked back onto us. Even if those hundred thrown out reasons not to
choose or choose them, but when the universe would tell this is not the perfect
timing, then it won’t happen. And you would sit there in longer days and hours,
waiting for that person to love you.
5. Not Ready!
The last reason is
when you are not ready. Even if you wanted to be but then you feel like you’re
not ready, then you will never be. Being ready is with the path of readiness to
be hurt, love, cry, starting fresh, or whatever riddling sentiments would be
readily accepted and handled well. And being ready is simply the ability to be
committed seriously.